Bring on the MONTH OF LOVE!!!! I LOVE Valentine's Day!
*this is a very long post so I won't feel bad if you don't read it all.It is my most favorite holiday. I feel like it is such a wonderful holiday. It celebrates LOVE. How can that not be a good holiday? I have always loved Valentine's Day. Most people think I like it because it is the day after my birthday and I get two great days in a row. While that might be true... I love Valentine's Day for what it stands for. Who shouldn't celebrate LOVE? I mean, there are many people out there without it or who would like to receive it and even children who NEED it. I believe it is important to remember that without LOVE no on would be happy... And I'm not just talking about romantic love, I'm talking about every type of love you could think of; motherly love, brotherly love, sisterly love, love for a friend... love for an enemy. I feel like Valentine's Day or even the entire month of February is a wonderful time to celebrate love. That is why I fondly refer to February as the "Month of LOVE".
However, the whole Valentine's experience is AWESOME... isn't it? I mean, who doesn't love the pink, the red, and the purple. Then there are the hearts, the flowers, the candy. It seems to take over the entire grocery store. When you walk down the Valentine candy aisle, doesn't it just make you happy?
I have to admit that being a teacher made Valentine's Day way better. I had students give me some pretty cool things. And who doesn't love the Valentines you get that say, "You're the best TEACHER" or "Number 1 TEACHER". Even if you are a terrible teacher, you still get those. Because we all know that those packages ALL come with a teacher Valentine. Which makes any child feels obligated to give it to his/her teacher. I admit, this year I'm a little saddened that I won't get any of those. But I still intend to make Valentine's Day the BEST holiday for my family. Okay, it might not top the hoopla of Christmas. But in the future, my kids will know that Mom thinks Christmas is awesome but it's still second to Valentine's Day.
Okay, so on to my point. I was thinking today about how much some people dislike Valentine's Day. And I was single for a little longer than the norm in the Mormon culture... but even during my single years, I LOVED Valentine's Day. I even think I had a right to HATE the day. It didn't start out great. I mean, my first real Valetine's Day with a boyfriend, really sucked!! I mean, he didn't get me ANYTHING. Mind you, I was in high school (when you are REALLY dumb) but he could have done something. I mean, come on... Then year, after year, after year, after year, when I was single and sad... so sad, I still loved it.
I made it a tradition to buy those special glazed heart shaped donuts you can get at the bakery on Valentine's Day and share them with all my friends... and of course, the boy(s) I was interested in. However, I was met with a lot of "I hate Valentine's Day" or "It's Single Awareness Day". The latter of the two just made my blood boil. I don't know why. Maybe it goes back to my inner feelings about why February should be called the "Month of LOVE". So I would always say, "Well, here is a little something from me to help you LOVE this special day". I think it helped... a little.
Then the miraculous time came when I actually had a LOVE to celebrate this day with. He does an excellent job by the way. He knows how much I love it and wants to make it just as special as I think it should be. So there you have it... I hope this helps you all (whoever you are) get into the spirit of the "Month of LOVE" because it is just a day away! WAHOOOO!!!!!
*This post was meant to be light-hearted as well as serious. :)